Crying, always had a negative connotation. Mostly, I agree that crying is an indication of extreme emotions. but mostly it is automatically done when something turns wrong. it's a good way of release. certainly, most cases when we cry is that we tend to ease away pain.(according to our psychology book which was used in our psychology class, pain is an idication that there is something wrong or abnormal happening. )
One negative belief of with regards to crying, is that:men has no right to cry. because in a sexual point of view. men is strong, and women are weak. so men tends not to cry. to prove his menhood. but this is not the way it should be. crying is very comforting. a goddess-given gift. I was once mocked gay. I cried before, but to prove am not gay. i condemned crying. I cursed myself and swear that no tear would fall. it happened that not even a single teardrop fell form my eyes. ( except when i yawn!) trials came and little by little it weakened me. I have no means of release. pain hauted and tortured me since then. it was then, i realize that crying is a good means of release. so i prayed to the gods and goddesses wishing them to bring back my tears, to cry a river again.
after a few weeks I had broken up with my ex-girlfriend, we end up dramatically. gosh! we end our relationship over the phone. since she placed down the phone and the dial tone came into my ears, tears started to fall. i felt relieved after that cry. i felt huge amount of aip passes into my nostrils. i felt calm, relaxed. it was one of my nicest experience, and after this incident our proffesor which is Mrs.Edeliza Lielz Cequena told us the importance of crying, that according to a study men mostly commits suicide than women. it's because of emotional problems. men tend to keep it deep inside all their pain, rather than girls which always tends to talk with fellow girl friends, crying to them and having their release.
So here is an angelic meditation that iwant to share to you on how to release your burdens to the angels.
Sit back, relax and clear your mind. after a few minutes, envision a pink and golden light coming near you.and, now it slowly forms a figure as on a man or woman with wings. ask her what name you liked him/her to be addressed. now, envision you source of pain. is it your break up? is it your financial losses? or etc. now if you feel crying then do so, it maybe the way the angels heal you. feel the pain, now imagine it that, that scenario is being placed inside a box. after which hand it to the angel. if there are messages that the angels are telling you what might it be? ask him. inreturn of the box. he'll give you a gift. something that is personal that only you and the angels can interpret and know what is it or what does it do.
I did this to a client and the gift she recieved was a white and purplish shpere(ball) of energy/light. even i couldn't interpret it's use. but i know, the angles gave it to her for a purpose.
So if you, who is reading this article is men, dont be ashamed to cry. its a humane and natural instinct, a goddess given gift to releave from all the stresses and pain you had. enjoy crying!
